Everything you think and feel will change when you embrace yourself. You cannot acheive contentment unless you do. Release all those judgements you have about yourself and see your true essence, the Divine within yourself.
It doesn’t matter where you have been, or what you have been told. You simply reflect what you believe you are in this moment. If you want to heal your relationships you have to heal the relationship you have with yourself. You define your relationship with yourself.
Be good to yourself and see the beauty in who you have become, but be mindful to have compassion. Let go of the blame. Let go of the past. Don’t let the opinions of others cause you to believe you are unworthy of love. You are beautiful and you are worthy.